hola buenos nachos.

hypothetical question of today is: I'm assuming that everyone would be pretty upset if you discovered your bf or gf was cheating on you with another girl/guy. BUT...how would you feel if it was someone of the SAME sex? i'm thinking that guys wouldn't really get too upset if their chicks were doing it with some other women, in fact they'd probably ask to watch or get in on the action. Girls, i think would be kind of upset about the guy guy thing, unless they like that stuff but i think most women find the thought of two guys to be pretty yucky.

next topic...being the "other" person. mostly you just hear about some floozy or ho or slut that stole so and so's boyfriend or the dick/asshole/dumb shit who stole some guy's chick, but what is it like to be that person? i don't think people consider that very often. It's really something that people should do, I mean, really, i seriously think that people don't really think about what it's like to be someone else. they're just so quick to pass judgements about who's doing what and why it's wrong.

i've been the other person, i suppose, or if not, then i was a lot closer to it than some people. it's not like i was out to destroy other people's relationships or anything like that. another thing is that people always put all the blame on that other person..like if some guy leaves his girlfriend for another girl, it's always, "That bitch that stole my boyfriend!" Like hello, the guy was just totally innocent in all of this? sheyah.

i forget what i was talking about because i was surfin' the net, looking for some Dawson's Creek page that has the synopsisessesesess of what's been going on on the show because i missed last week's episode cuz it was messed up from the UH BYU volleybal game. Let us have a moment of silence....

i'm wasting my day here. doing absolutely nothing at all. it sucks when i don't work and then i don't do anything else. it's very strange but last night i was talking to Victor about why he works so much... something about passing time. it's days like these that i can really understand that.

speaking of Victor...i think i need a name for him, so when i mention him in my journals i can just use that name instead...so much easier. Vs are harder to type because they're in the bottom row...odd angle. I guess i could call him gay but i think dave's friends have all the good "gay" names. hmm....what shall it be? i just don't know.

i was going to say something else about something...it's just one of those days i guess.

well anyway, this is pretty boring so i'm going to go. i feel sorry for who ever is reading this because if i can bore myself it must be horrible for someone else.